What services do you offer?
Holistic coaching, somatic sexology, sex education, facilitation, and ethical piercing education to support pleasure, self-discovery, and authentic transformation.

Where can your clients be located?
I work with clients worldwide through virtual coaching and educational sessions. My services are available internationally and are not limited by geographic location. Coaching and educational services are not psychotherapy, medical care, or mental health treatment.

Are your services inclusive and tailored for all sexual orientations, gender identities, asexual individuals, neurodivergent clients, and other marginalized communities?
Yes. All sessions, workshops, and educational offerings are designed to honor and support a wide range of identities and experiences. This includes pleasure-based coaching for asexual individuals, queer-affirming practices for all sexual orientations and gender identities, and flexible approaches for neurodivergent clients. Services are personalized to meet each client’s unique needs, ensuring a safer, inclusive, empowering, and pleasure-centered experience that centers marginalized voices.

Who can benefit from your work?
Individuals, couples, polycules, and groups seeking personal growth, wellness, or deeper embodiment of pleasure, with an inclusive approach for marginalized identities

What are your rates ?
Coaching & Sexology:

Individual, couple, and polycule sessions (up to 3 people) - $185 per hour.

Sessions for polycules with more than 3 people can be discussed and tailored during your consultation.

Equity-based pricing is available in some cases to make services accessible.

While insurance is not accepted, HSA and FSA funds can be used for some coaching sessions.

Educational & Classes

Rates vary depending on whether the class is private or group and whether it is an existing offering or a bespoke class created just for you.

Tonya works with each client to provide transparent, flexible, and personalized pricing that honors your journey and needs.

For all services, extended or shortened sessions are pro-rated in 15 minute increments.

How can I book a session or class?
Schedule a consultation with Tonya via the website, email, or phone to explore coaching, sexology, or educational sessions tailored to your needs. Responses typically arrive within 48 hours, as thoughtful reflection and rest are prioritized.

When are fees for services due and how do I pay for services?
All fees for services are due prior to the time of service unless noted otherwise in writing. Fees are payable through our website via Squarespace using accepted credit or debit cards and other available checkout options. We also accept payment through PayPal. Payment is due prior to the delivery of services unless otherwise specified in writing. Clients are responsible for any fees charged by their financial institution or payment provider.

What is your cancellation policy?
Sessions cancelled less than 48 business hours will incur a missed session fee equal to the full amount of the service.

What is yoru refund policy for payment plans?
All deposits and installments on payment plans are non-refundable.

What is your policy for sliding scale services?
A limited number of sliding scale spaces may be available for individuals experiencing financial hardship. Sliding scale consideration is intended to increase access and may be prioritized for people from historically marginalized, underrepresented, or systematically disadvantaged communities.

Requests for sliding scale services are reviewed on a case-by-case basis. Submission of a request does not guarantee approval, and all sliding scale decisions are made at the sole discretion of the provider based on available capacity, financial need, and other relevant factors. The provider reserves the right to approve, deny, modify, or discontinue sliding scale arrangements at any time.